So is this what you call a playboy? A womanizer? Or a Casanova?

This movie really come right on time.

And this contest by Nuffnang really does come right on time.

I have a story or rather a life experience to share with you guys.

Well, i don’t know if the story i am going to tell will be

to you guys or

to you, but i am definitely very very

yes you guess it right : SAD AND DISSAPOINTED

Ok here is how it goes. This is my dark secret that i seldom share with anyone. No many people know this except for my close ones. But because i wanted to tell the world and share to you about this crap, and because Nuffnang did this contest, there is no better time then to share with the whole world about my true life experience which i will never forget.

Look, since I was in secondary school I was always been labeled a PLAYBOY!. Somehow or rather people think i am one. While all my gf’s DUMPED me, the fault is still mine. I really don’t know why. Here are the few incident that happen in my life where people blamed me although it is not my fault.

1. When i was in form 1, i dated a girl. My first love to be exact. She is my classmate. Ok so, yeah, we both being naive and stuff, we wrote lotsa sweet love letters to each other. Our love was really strong at that moment. And 1 day, there was this spot check. Random spot check. The prefect found the love letter and hand it to the discipline teacher. Guess what she answer when the discipline teacher question us
Teacher : Kenapa tulis surat ini? Kecik kecik dah tulis surat cinta ye?
Her : Cikgu, bukan saya tulis. Dia yang tulis. Dia yang suka I. I tak suka dia langsung.
Me : Speechless. =_=

What surprise me is that how is she so dumb enough to keep the letter in her bag. =_=
Now you know why i always say I dont want to be reminded about my first love. And yet people blame me and say i am a PLAYBOY for breaking with her. I think she created some story and defame me lor.. Sigh.

2. I was with this girl. A prefect. Yeah we were together for a month. And suddenly she likes this guy. Out of a sudden. Everytime we date, she sure call this guy to join. Ok im fine with it. Then there is one day, we were all in the cinema, they were both fooling around leaving me alone. Its f***king saddening ok. Can you imagine your gf fooling around with another guy in front of you? And heck after that day, she treated me differently and dumped me. And yet again, when people ask me about me and her, i say break up and they say i am a playboy. WTF WTF WTF. Isnt it her fault?  gahhhh!

3.  I know this girl through a friend. We are from the same tuition center. As usual our love is ‘considered’ strong. She always tell me how much she love me and wouldn’t break up with me. Fine, there’s one day she invited me to her school’s function. And @ the function i intro her to one of my friend. And instantly she hooked up with him in front of me. WTF. and she dumped me her right on the spot and walk off. And again i am labeled a playboy as usual.

4. I was close to this girl when i was form 4. I love her a lot and did lotsa stuff for her. We were together until a prom night. A guy who loved her for so long came and snatch her away from me. That night, the prom night, she dance with the guy while totally ignore me and make me as if I am invisible. Gah, and again after a few days, she finally tell me don’t waste my time on her, she is with that guy already.

5. I meet this girl at college. We were together for 1 week only. And we broke. Why? Because of rumors. People tell her i am a playboy. The problem is i don’t know anyone in college who knows me since secondary school. WTF.  I don’t know why the heck people spread rumors about me when i don’t even know them. I never had a gf in college before neither do i announce my relationship outside to them. =____=

There are another 2 more incident where rumors take it course and cause me my relationship but its too embarrassing to be shared. I even have a girl refusing to be friends with me after she heard rumors from a friend that i am a playboy. Seriously this is total crap.

I don’t care if i am gonna defame this school or what, but heck i gotta tell the world.

The students that always defame not just me, but others that i am close to is  none other than

SMK SERI BINTANG UTARA!

That is why is shifted from that bloody school! Now take that right @ your face!

I know not all of you guys are like that, but still there are plentiful that have bare their ugly side and i will never forget you guys.

Ok readers, the point i am trying to prove her is this.

WHY IN THE WORLD PEOPLE DONT BLAME THE FEMALE WHEN SOMETHING HAPPEN IN A RELATIONSHIP? (maybe not to you, but to me). Why is it always the guys fault? Why is always MY fault to be exact.

Ive never dumped a girl ( well now i do already. I dumped a girl and i regretted. =_= ), never cheat on anyone, never did anything evil behind their back, loyal and bla bla bla, and yet the females always tend to turn their back on me

I really need an answer. Please provide me.

About relating my story to the movie. Yeah. I think i can relate myself somehow as i was the supposedly “playboy” like what that guy is in the movie. People think i freely date this girl and that girl and dump this girl and that girl. Yeah, i actually sat down and reflect upon myself. I actually thought, maybe if that is what they see in me, i should start by changing their perception on me.  I should start by showing to them this is how i am suppose to be.

Thank God, i meet this girl that totally changed my life. I was with her for 1 year plus. When people knew that we are together for that long, more and more human =_= slowly changed their perception on me. Although there are a handful of them who still think I am a playboy, I am still glad that things have slowly shed light.

I also would want my dear readers  to know, rumors are always bad. No matter what, believe in your BF/GF. Dont jump into conclusion. I should know. After all i have 3 failed relationship due to rumors.

At last, i hope you enjoy my side of story. And i hope NUFFNANG will give me the pass to the screening.

I LOVE NUFFNANG! =)))))

P.S : BTW IM SINGLE AND AVAILABLE FYI!. xD

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